How to know that you are being used or turned into puppet?

 Here are a few bullet points to show that you are acting or made to act as puppets:

1. Someone looks for your problem and give suggestion before you ask for them
2. You are repeatedly given a list of things or habits that harm or hurt or so
3. You are told that you MUST imbibe some good habits & follow elders
4. You are told that you are not capable to handle your issues & need help
5. You are given to understand that if sick you must eat or drink medicine
6. You are made to talk of your problems more often than your strengths
7. Advertisements and promotions are flashed regularly about a caution
8. You are always told about some negative thing that is happening in all places
9. You are made to believe that if you don't obey instructions, you will be victim
10. You are given to believe that some ailments go with the life of people.

Just see, think and comment.